Dark under eyes..........................…

people always always say i look tired.. some days admittedly i am tired.. other days i feel completely fine.. when i don't have make up on i look like death warmed up honestly my skin is soo blotchy red and i have these awful awful dark grayish circles under my eyes and there not just little half rings there like really really noticeable no matter how much concealer i put on it makes them worse!!.. and then they go dry and wrinkle from the concealer.... any ideas on how to solve this problem am even tempted to seek medical advise on surgery.. as am really getting depressed an upset about this now... is spoiling my confidence big time where i dare not even look in a mirror without curtains been shut!!.. i dare not even look at people when there talkin to me coz my my hideous eyes... :( please help..