Questions about 1st time mothers you're oppinions and thought's?

I know how upsetting things can be when it comes to your child, but sweetie, your daughter is not going to remember this birthday at all. Years from now you will look back and think how silly it was for you to be uspet about something so trivial. Enjoy your daughter, enjoy her birthday and enjoy your family. LIfe is too short to worry about having the "perfect" party.